I thought about writing a post giving my top tips to avoid procrastination. But the truth is, there’s only one: Sit down and get it done.

I wonder if there are people who don’t suffer with this plight. Perhaps certain individual are too driven and focused to let such forces come into play.

I also wonder if the very act of procrastination is in fact another emotion. Doubt, anxiety and depression are my biggest causes. I flounder, an overwhelming sense of being lost, unclear of my path and sometimes a down right lack of caring about myself. The fog has enveloped my mind, muddied my outlook and taken rot in my soul.

I didn’t blog last week. I simply couldn’t face it. I had no pearls of wisdom to share. Instead of beating myself up over the fact that I was underperforming, missing my goals and a variety of other things I could sling at myself worth. I admitted defeat with grace, accepted that occasionally my mental health is at a critical low and the best thing I can do is recuperate.

My state of mind is a gift and a curse, my craft explores the joy and pain of the world around me. It’s how I make sense of my life. Too much suffering shuts down my creativity and cripples me.

“Compassion hurts. When you feel connected to everything, you also feel responsible for everything. And you cannot turn away. Your destiny is bound with the destinies of others. You must either learn to carry the Universe or be crushed by it. You must grow strong enough to love the world, yet empty enough to sit down at the same table with its worst horrors.”
Andrew Boyd, Daily Afflictions: The Agony of Being Connected to Everything in the Universe

Take care of yourselves, you’re worth it.

Author Lorraine Ambers Web-Banner YA fantasy book review romance

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